Saturday, December 31, 2011

Celebrating Christmas and New Year's with my Family via Cellphone.

I finally talked to my son, Frenz, two days ago.  The last time we talked and played together, was when I saw him in the backyard riding his trike, the day I left to fly back to Guahan.  Since then, Rhoda and Larraine would give me news about my boy via YM or Skype.  To finally hear his voice over the phone was totally awesome. 

Frenfren said, "Hi Daddy!  Merry Christmas dad.  I miss you.  I love you". 

I replied back, "Merry Christmas my boboy, I miss you too.  Love you so much". 

There was some coaching from Rhoda to keep him focused on talking to me.  I apparently kept him from going to sleep at the family house in the province.  As soon as I called...Frenz got up.  He knew I was calling. 

Frenz asked about his chokoy (chocolates).  I told him that I will bring his chocolates home with me.  When I fly back there in a couple of weeks/months.  Rhoda told me that he was smiling when I said, I will bring his chocolates with me. 

I talked to my Neni Girl, Larraine.  She is so big and mature for her age.  She has become a beautiful young lady.  I'm gonna have to buy more guns and ammo to keep the boys in line.  Also, more pitbulls to raise to keep them from sneaking up to the house.  Anyway, Larraine is happy to be with her cousins and siblings back at the family compound in the province.  We talked a bit on the phone.  I miss her so much.  Larraine knows I'd give her anything.  Unfortunately, Rhoda keeps me in check about those things. 

Finally, got some talk time with my beautiful lady, wishing each other Merry Christmas and Happy New Year, talking about our plans for the coming month, and what the kids are doing.  Rhoda has been doing so much in my absence.  We both know that I have to be here on Guahan earning income for them.  The hard part is the distance.  What really helps is our Faith.  We put God first in our family, and because we do, things go so much smoother with God as our first priority. 

While talking to Rhoda, I could hear Frenfren in the background yelling at his elder cousin.  My boy is bossy.  Actually Frenfren and Larraine emulate their mommy and me.  So they act out what they see.  But they do go overboard with it.  While he was there, Frenfren, 2 years old and the baby of the family, is telling his elder siblings and cousins to clean up after themselves, and be quiet.  Rhoda tells me that Frenfren is constantly sweeping the floor.  Fren doesn't like the floor dirty because he doesn't like his feet dirty.  He is very organized for his age puts his things in order and folds his clothes.  Amazing for a 2 year old. 

Larraine loves to sing and dance.  She has a beautiful voice.  She enjoyed her time volunteering with her mommy as they treated many flood survivors.  When her baby brother, Frenfren, went to Butuan City ahead of them, with his Nino, a day after the flood hit Cagayan De Oro City.  Larraine was really emotional and missing her baby brother.  Rhoda and I could only laugh but feel bad for her at the same time.  Those two are very close. 

My family will be back in Cagayan De Oro next week from their Christmas/New Year vacation.  I can hardly wait for my next visit in the coming weeks/months to be with them again. 

Magof na Åñu Nuebu! (Happy New Year!)

Friday, December 30, 2011

2011 Goals in Review

I was just looking over my 2011 Goals.  I accomplished a lot this year, more than I did in 2010.  AWESOME! 

My yearly goals are broken down into 5 areas of my life; Spiritual Faith, Family, Health, Career, and Hobby (didn't do my hobby category this year).  Which I call my Five Major Foundations of Me.  I have a long term goal for each of my major foundations.  It is where I see myself in that category in 3, 5, or 10 years.  That's followed by short term goals under each category of what I want to accomplish within this year or the next couple of months. 

What I've accomplished overall is awesome.  I've read each short term goal and realized...oh, yeah...did that, done that...check it off. 

Spiritual Faith: I accomplished 3 of 4 goals.  That's pretty awesome. 

Family: I accomplished 5 of 5 goals. 

Health: Did 4 of 5 there. 

Career A:  Knocked out 4 of 5
Career B:  Netted 3 for 3. 

Hobby:  I tabled as soon as the year started, due to a tragic incident.  So I'm not counting this category.  I will add this whole category of goals to my 2012 Goals. 

I enjoy goal setting.  I'm glad to have learned this valuable skill set, years ago in my youth. 

Do Not Shoot Your Guns Into the Air this New Year's Eve!

I'm a gun owner.  I was taught basic marksmanship skills since my youth.  I take weapons safety very seriously.  I have only shot my weapons at targets, still and live. 

It does not fail, every New Year's Eve on this island, many irresponsible gun owners take their weapons out on New Year's Eve and shoot into the air to celebrate the New Year.  This is not SAFE!  This island has experienced it's residents getting hit by these expended rounds traveling at high velocity.  One year, a guy was shot while on a boat.  Another year, a young girl received injuries from a stray bullet.  In another year, a guy was shot as he was sitting in a garage.  He was hit by a stray bullet. 

Owning guns is an inalienable right, that is protected by our US Constitution 2nd Amendment, and that comes with heavy responsibilities.  When you abuse the right and those responsibilities...you forfeit that right to bear arms to protect yourselves.  Your weapons should be auctioned off to responsible gun owners. 


DO NOT SHOOT YOUR WEAPONS  INTO THE AIR ON NEW YEAR'S EVE!

 


I want to thank all the responsible weapons owners who take their Right, seriously and do not abuse that right and it's responsibilities.  My challenge to you now...is to report any irresponsible weapons owner who shoots their weapons into the air.  Even if it's a relative or close friend...report them.  Their irresponsible actions will give a black eye to our 2nd Amendment Right to Bear Arms. 



Thursday, December 29, 2011

Feeling better...the cold turned into a flu. Been resting all day, today...drinking lots of fluids. I know I'll be better in the morning. :)

Neighbor teasing my dogs.

Still fighting this cold.  But, I am a lot better than the last couple of days.  The hard cough and scratchy throat are irritating.  Drinking warm water seems to help with that issue. 


My neighbor is walking his dog again this morning.  My dogs are all barking and growling at him and his small dog.  Watching him earlier...he was teaching his dog to "sic" my dogs.  All my dogs are on leads.  He didn't see me watching from my sliding door.  Everytime, he would walk by with his dog in front of my house, passing by my driveway.  He would do the same routine..."siccing' his dog on mine.  I wonder if he truly realizes what he's doing.  I should go outside and let Duchess, my ranch dog, off her lead and have her "hit" his dog.   Teach that neighbor a hard lesson, about teasing my dogs. 




Friday, December 23, 2011

Note to self: Instant coffee has finer grounds. If it's larger than finer, it's meant to be brewed. Remember that or you'll be spitting out coffee grounds again.

No traffic on 16 and 8 this morning at 1000 hrs. As soon as I hit Marine Corps Drive... Bumper to bumper. Where'd all these people come from. Go Home! Go back to Work! I know some of you are skipping out from work! Dalai, if I were your boss. Ma'fire!

Cagayan De Oro Relief Efforts

Reading various news and blogs on the internet, the relief efforts at Cagayan De Oro are slowly moving forward.  Morgues have been filled to capacity,  The cities of Cagayan De Oro and Iligan are contemplating mass burials to prevent bigger health issues with decomposing corpse.  Many residents in both cities want to hold back the burials to give families more time to locate and identify their deceased loved ones. 

Water is slowly being restored to parts of Cagayan De Oro City.  Just last night, Rhoda was able to get free flowing water from our faucets.  We've been praying for that since last week after the flood hit.  Answered prayer.  Lourdes College Alumni and students are going out daily on medical missions to provide basic first aid to the victims.  Rhoda and our daughter Larraine have been part of he volunteer force almost daily now.  I'm proud of them for helping out. 

Donations are coming in from all over the world to help with this calamity.  Just recently...hours ago, Philippine Airlines tweeted:

  •  Lucio Tan Group, PAL airlift 1,000 body bags, 5,000 blankets to CDO donated by Fo Guang Shan buddhist monastery in Taipei.


Pampamgan Mayors donated 500 wooden caskets to help with burial efforts.  Donations are slowly making it's way to the stricken cities.  It's still not enough.  Financial Blessings are needed to fund many of these relief efforts.  Everyday the medical missions from the various nursing colleges go out with limited supplies.  My wife's nursing group is texting it's alumni and student membership to bring their own supplies to help out with the medical missions.  A group from Holland is helping with donation efforts to fund the medical missions.  

First Assembly of God Church in CDO is well entrenched with relief efforts providing clothing, rice, pails to flood victims.  They are going out daily to the stricken areas and evacuations centers delivering much needed supplies.  Flood victims are making their way to the church for aide. 

Rhoda and Larraine donated many of our unused clothes, baby bottles, pairs of my socks to First Assembly of God Church.  From what was told to me, a family was given our donation.  The lady who received our donation was in tears.  I'm glad that she's able to use the clothes and baby items.  The husband is probably freaking out at my big clothes and socks.  lol...

Even with the disaster relief efforts going on.  Muslim extremists are still causing problems at some evacuation centers.  Why don't these idiots lay down their arms for awhile so people on both sides can get the help they need.  Two soldiers were shot while trying to help one Muslim in Zamboanga, a couple of days ago.  This is a disaster...put down your arms and tend to your families.  Put your damn ideologies aside until everybody that is missing is accounted for; those who died, are buried; and homes are rebuilt.  After that is all done and accomplished...you can blow your brains out.


Please donate to the Philippine Red Cross or to First Assembly of God-CDO. 

Wednesday, December 21, 2011

First Lessons.

Growing up on Guahan, I experienced being bullied in elementary school.  It was bad that I didn't want to go back to school.  Three of my elder cousins learned about it.  So when they came by one day to clean around their ranch which was at the back of my family's first house.  They took it upon themselves to teach me how to fight.  They paired me up with their youngest brother who was a year older than me.  But they, the elder boys, told us to fight.  At first it was kind of funny...but getting hit in the face a couple of times...really hurt.  But I was not allowed to cry.  I had to fight back.  So we did.  We fought each other.  We fought from their ranch to the back of my  house.  My eldest cousin, older than the three that encourage me to fight, saw us and called for me and his youngest brother to stop.  He didn't yell at us.  But his stern lecture about us being cousins and family comes first and fighting is a last resort..kinda hit home.  Then he lectured the other three brothers about teaching us younger ones, about fighting. 

As for that bully, well...you could say that he didn't walk out of the boy's bathroom the same way he walked in, the very next week.  I learned later that the bully was another cousin from the mountain. 

I guess I am not the only one who enjoys drinking warm coco in the house. Almost swallowed a gecko that was in my coco. Gecko has to get its own cup of coco from now on. Almost had extra protein for breakfast.

Saturday, December 17, 2011

My kids dropped a dime on me. LOL...





When I was back home this past September.  I brought lots of party bags of Hershey's chocolate with me, the bite size bars.  From time to time, Rhoda rationed out the candy to the two kids, Larraine and Frenfren.  However without her knowing, I gave the two kids extra, and that it was supposed to be daddy's secret with them.  It was my little way of bonding with my children. 

However today, while the two kids were playing with each other.  They were talking about how I gave them chocolate candy and my instructions not to tell their mommy about daddy's secret.  They didn't know their mommy was right there listening to their conversation. 

I called Rhoda this afternoon and she asked me about my "secret with the kids".  I could only laugh.  Got Caught!  I'm still laughing about it. 

Aiii, my kids...they unknowingly told on me.  ROFL...

No more extra chocolate candy...

ROFL...

Wednesday, December 14, 2011

Six Reasons Everyone Should Hunt

Link

I enjoy eating the harvest of my hunts.  Pretty good article in the link.  I C/P the six points below. 


Here are six reasons why everyone should hunt:

1. It’s safe
According to data recently collected by the National Shooting Sports Foundation (NSSF), hunting with a gun is the third-safest sport when compared to 28 other popular sports, and has a lower injury rate than golf, volleyball and tackle football.

2. It’s healthy
Not only is venison free of man-made intervention, but obtaining it through hunting can be good exercise for the body and the mind. Hunting isn’t just about the kill—being afield helps us get reacquainted with the sights and sounds of the outdoors. It also allows us to step off the grid and escape the hustle and bustle of everyday life, which can be a refreshing change of pace for many.

3. It helps the planet
Hunting license fees and excise taxes on firearms and ammunition fund millions of acres of habitat preservation and improvement. Each year, sportsmen contribute $7.5 million per day toward conservation.

4. It’s good for the species
Habitat loss has eroded the natural range of animals while agriculture has increased food supplies—the result is game populations that must be managed. If they’re not hunted, they’ll die of starvation or disease. Like it or not, as we increase our land use, proper game management becomes more important than ever.

5. It saves money and helps the economy
Though you can spend thousands on gadgets and gear, putting game on the table can be done on a shoestring budget. Hunters are a generous lot—get a hunter to take you along and borrow what you can. Resident licenses and public land provide access at reasonable costs. Fifty or so pounds of meat will make for a lot family dinners.

And according to the Association of Fish and Wildlife Agencies, hunting is responsible for 600,000 U.S jobs, $66 billion in economic activity and $10 billion in state and federal tax revenue. 

6. It's good for your family
There are few better ways to spend quality time with your children than to take them away from the computer or TV and show them where their food comes from. Revealing how important it is to be resourceful and self-sufficient is also one of the greatest life lessons you can teach them.



Monday, December 12, 2011

Ranch: Afternoon adjustments.

I was in the ranch today after watching the Cowboys-Giants game.  I walked around, overlooked the layout of the ranch, and did some work.  I forgot to get a video recording of Larraine's chickens.  She asked me a couple of days ago, if I would be able to.  Since I am free tomorrow...I'll get do that in the morning during my morning checks. 

This afternoon, I noticed that I have a lot of lemon seedlings on the ground.  I'm going to transplant those along, but inside, the borders.  That would be a great physical barrier to deter  poachers coming into ranch, also, a lot of lemonade too.  The mango tree is flowering again...after it pushed out new leaves. 

The banana crop is doing really great.  So many bunches for this season.  The bunch I harvested the other day is now ripe.  They're amazingly sweet for Saba.  My mom made Turon this morning for breakfast.  It was good.  I'm looking forward to making Gollai Appan Aga tomorrow for the Life Cell's Party.  I prefer eating cooking banana to rice in season.

I moved the ranch dogs back into the ranch this afternoon.  Duchess and Stormie are now back there on rotation.  Stormie got to close to Pepsi and the two of them went at it.  That little rumble reminded me that the pack has not determined who is the new Alpha Female, since Lucky passed away months ago.  I'm going to have them go at it to find out.  Or else, I'll have control problems later on. 

Stormie is on perimeter post at the South-side of the ranch, Lucky's old post.    Duchess went to the East-side, her old post to guard.  Once I put the fence up, I'll have Duchess back out on rover duty.  I prefer her in that role.  She's good at it.  The three pups from Duchess: Nugget, Onyx, and Oreo will be placed around the house.  Nugget went to the front of the house to Stormie's post.  Oreo is at the back porch.  She will not be there for long.  I'm going to relocate her to the back side of the storage container next to the mango tree.  Onyx is currently at the barn shack.  She'll be relocated to the ranch side.  I might partner her up with Scout aka Brownie to learn more. 

I'm still working to schedule felling three huge trees in the ranch.  I'll have to clean around them first before I do anything with them.  Another chore would be to gather all the corrugated tin, stack them, then later on...use them for fencing around the garden. 

One day, at a time.

ESTA...

DADDY, I'M HERE!!!!

Frenz requested this pic be taken for me, months ago. 



Rhoda was telling me a story about our son Frenz a couple of days ago.  Our kids always amaze us.  This is Frenz's story.  Chokoy is Frenz's word  for chocolate.  Since he can't say chocolate.  Here is the story as told to me by Rhoda.  


  • Fren would run towards the window and shout: daddy you're home! daddy I'm here

  • Then when the plane passes by.  He would chase it and runs towards the door and climbs

  • then he would shout, dad!!!

  • I'm here...I know you bring chokoy for me

  • Then when the plane is gone.  He would start frowning his face and say : Mommy, baby cannot reach the plane, baby cannot reach daddy, so baby cannot reach the chokoy

  • In his dialect:  (Visayan)

  • daddy abot naka? dad naa si baby...

  • dad minaw ka dad?

  • dad!!! naa si baby...dala ka chokoy dad

  • then he would say

  • mommy dili abot ni baby prano, dili abot ni baby daddy, dili abot ni baby chokoy




He is so funny.  Frenfren knows that I'll be bringing lots of chocolates for the family.  I also promised him his own bag of chocolates...but rationed of course.  He doesn't know that. 






Here's a pic of Frenz, Rhoda, and me on my vacation this past September to our home in Cagayan De Oro.  See the chokoy stains around his mouth.  LOL.... 







Here is a pic with all of us.  From L-R: Frenz, Me, Rhoda, and Larraine. 

I love my family! 


Sunday, December 11, 2011

Ranch: Working my Banana Crop.

Putting the new ranch plans to paper.  It's been more than a year since that I let my fields go fallow.  Mowing them now and soon to be tilled under.  I'll be putting seeds down next week.  Also, transplanting lots of lemon, kalamansi, lemon-china along the borders.  I'll take pictures of my progress from now on.  Have to start keeping pics as part of my paperwork for audits to move into organics. 

My banana crops look really good this year.  I've counted 10 bunches already and more flowers budding out.  This afternoon, I trimmed out a lot of suckers.  I only need the mother plant, one daughter, and maybe a granddaughter on the mat,  The other suckers are just competing for nutrients from the mother plant.  When new sword leaf suckers show up next week.  I'll cut those out and plant them in the South-side of the ranch. 

My Saba (cooking) Bananas are doing really well.  I was able to harvest a bunch today.  Looking forward to roasted banana tomorrow.   I have to work more on my Macau, Manila, Fiji, and Williams varieties. 

It's weird how many names each variety has depending on region.  We have Lakatan bananas here.  But it is a different Lakatan from the Philippines.  The Lakatan variety we have is a cooking banana that looks like horns.  The Lakatan banana from the Philippines is the Williams or Chiquita.  The Manila banana is also known as Lady Fingers.  These are very sweet dessert bananas.  I prefer the Fiji variety better than the Manila. 

Normally, I check on the banana crop once a week.  When the bunches turn dark green to light green.  I check them daily.  When one hand in the bunch is light green.  That's when I harvest it.  Some farmer's say you'll need to people to harvest a bunch.  Especially, if that bunch is big.  I've learned over the years that you can harvest a bunch solo.  You just have to know what you're doing. 

I noticed that I have a lot of coconut saplings.  I'm gonna pull those and replant them along the Eastern and Southern borders.  These will make great living fence posts for the new cattle herd I'll acquire next year.  That reminds me, I'll be putting up the new goat pen soon. 


Thursday, December 8, 2011

NCCER reviewed my recommendation for correction






Just received an email from NCCER's Product Development.   They reviewed my recommendation regarding an error I spotted in the module I was taking at the time in my Project Management Course.  The researched and found that my recommendation is correct.  How awesome is that?! 


Here is a copy of the email I sent them a month ago:

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I am a student currently taking the NCCER's Project Management Course, at GCA's Trade Academy on Guam.  I am also an authorized NCCER instructor for Core Curricula. 

While taking the Safety Module 44102-08, I noticed a discrepancy with the information below. 


Craft: Project Management
Module Name: Safety
Copyright Date: 1997, 2008
Module Numvber 44102-08
Page Numbers:  2.11 and 2.28

The information on page 2.11, Section 4.1.1,  2nd paragraph states, "employers will be required to maintain employee medical and exposures records related to the regulated substances for the duration of employment plus 30 years.".  This is correct per OSHA regulations.

The following information on page 2.28, Figure 15 Record Retention List, on second row from top under Type of Report, states, "Employee Medical and exposure Records".  On the next column, Record Retention, second row from top, it states, "duration of employment.". This needs to be corrected to read as "duration of employment plus 30 years".



Regards,

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Here is the email I just received:

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Dear Lorenzo XXXXXXX:

Thank you for taking the time to write the Product Development and Revision Department of the NCCER with your comments concerning the Project Management curriculum.

We appreciate the feedback you’ve provided.  Your inquiry was in reference to the information on page 2.28 in the Module number 44102-08.  After reviewing the sections for each question, your recommendations were correct. We will be making changes in our next reprint.

Thanks again for going the extra mile. We invite your continued input and recommendations.

With kind regards,   

XXXXXX XXXX  (Deleted the name for their privacy)

Project Assistant

Product Development

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That is so awesome that I was able to spot an error in that module and send NCCER a recommendation for correction.  I will send a copy of the email to our Education Director at GCA Trades Academy. 





0147 in the morning, I should not have drank that Mocha Frappe from Mickey D's, after my class this evening. Now I'm wired.

Monday, December 5, 2011

Great Weekend with ALC Ground Breaking.






Been really busy this past week, working on the ranch, marketing OSH Solutions, and helping out with the ground breaking ceremony for Abundant Life Church.  It was all great. 

Getting to catch up with my ranch projects.  In a day or two, I'll have to sit down with pencil to paper and draw out the ranch projects.  Where to put the vegetable garden, the new goat pen, the pig pen, and cattle area.  Yes, I will be acquiring my first cattle herd next year.  A big step for Matua Ranch. 



I've been part of Abundant Life Church's Engineering Team for the last 6 months, as the Safety Leader. I was not really needed in the meetings until the Construction Phase.  However, I sat in most of the Friday meeting, listening to the engineers talk about the new vision center that is planned for the church.  The meeting were conducted in tagalog. I didn't mind.  Although, some apologized for it.  I really didn't mind.  I understood most of what was being said.  Just don't ask me to summarize any of it.  I do understand Tagalog.  My mom's side of the family speaks Tagalog.  I had no choice but to understand the language.  Especially when I lived in the Philippines for two or three years, going to the elementary school at UPLB in Laguna. 




Anyway, I watched as the Team Engineers worked on project issues, talking about quotes, building plans, and other project matters.  It was a learning experience for me.  I can relate to my Project Management Course at the Trades Academy what I had observed during all those Friday meetings. 







The Friday meetings funneled to the lone contractor chosen to build the New Vision Center,  5M Construction.  The ground breaking was scheduled right after the bid was awarded to them.  I believe we only had a two week period to plan the ground breaking ceremony and fiesta.  It was all good.  A short simple ceremony that was in the vision for years.  Hopefully, this time next year, we'll be celebrating in the New Vision Center.





During my off time, I've been going around to different companies, marketing OSH Solutions to them.  I'm hoping that they will pick us up as their Safety Training Company.  One of the companies that I've been trying to bring in to OSH has been cited for 14 safety violations on their project up at the air force base.  They were given a safety shutdown.  I personally know the safety leader on that project.  Well, I'll be seeing them on Wednesday to present them a consulting package from OSH Solutions. 



Pictures by Erik Sean Aquino.

Thursday, December 1, 2011

It Is All About Choices and Conveniences.

I read the below comment from a group page on facebook.

So many of us don't have land, and live in homes or apartments where the only way you can get your food (even if natural like from a farmer's market) is to buy it. We cannot build our homes but live in concrete boxes. We must take our kids to medical doctors or they cannot attend school. In fact, we must have this dumb computer or they will fail school. Unless we are fortunate to own land and live off of it, we're stuck in a consumer world. And even if we own land, laws require we be consumers.



I reflected on the comment for awhile.  After I awhile, I disagreed with the comment. 

Just because you do not have land does not mean you cannot get farm fresh produce.  You can still grow vegetables in pots.  If you're renting a home with land, use pots to grow vegetables in.  Ask your landlord if you can put in a garden.  If you're renting an apartment you can do the same.  You won't know, if you don't ask. 

Yes, owning land has it's freedoms to do what you can with the land you have.  But just because you don't have any...does not mean you can't.  You can lease land.  Try going on a private contract with the landowner.  I have seen and know people on this island who are ranching on private land on contract. 

If you want to send your children to school here on island, you have to follow the rules/regulations to do that.  Yes, it means they have to get their shots.  If you don't like that idea.  There is always homeschooling. 

As per concrete homes, we also have a choice to do that.  We can build beautiful wooden homes.  But it comes with a price.  Living in typhoon alley, majority of the people have chosen concrete homes so they don't have to rebuild as much after a major typhoon hits the island.  All insurance companies will not insure a wooden structure on island. 

Technology is a love hate relationship.  Either we use it to our benefit and move ahead, or we're left behind.  Yes, children do a lot of work on the computer in school nowadays.  However it is not true that they need it for school.  My daughter is a 4th Honors Student in her class.  She doesn't use a computer for school work even though she is more computer/technological advance than I am.  She knows my cellphone better than I do.

NO one forces us to be Consumers.  It is a matter of Choice and Convenience.  That's what it all boils down too. 

Being a rancher has it's awards and also it's setbacks.  I choose to be a rancher for several reasons.  I want fresh produce and meat for my family.  I enjoy being outdoors.  But we are at the mercy of the weather in our area.  I also just don't ranch here at my place, but at other ranches as well.  There are alliances that I've made with other ranchers.  We barter our goods or in kind services with each other.  It's also a lifestyle that I particularly enjoy. 

It is not convenient being a rancher.  Raising animals prevents you from going to gatherings with family or friends.  You have livestock to take care of daily...seven days a week...365 days a year.  Gardens have to be maintained daily.  Putting off a scheduled fertilizer a couple of days, maybe the stake in the heart, whether your harvested produce are organic or not. 

Many Chamorus/Guamanians own land but don't do anything with it because of their busy schedules.  They don't have time.  Some property homeowners prefer to grow grass and exotic plants around their homes, instead of growing gardens to feed them. 

Here is a site that disproves that you need large tracts of land to farm.  Check out Urban Homestead.  It's an amazing site that gives great ideas to farm the land that you have. 

A lot of our people choose convenience over our traditional ranching lifestyle.  In the end, no can dictate to you what to do, unless you allow them to.
 

Wednesday, November 30, 2011

Should have followed up my intent.

A couple of weeks ago, I went into my bank to suspend my account.  I believed there was a hacker that got my account information and was withdrawing funds.   Meeting with the customer service representative, I was told there was a way that they will help me to secure that account so I don't have to suspend or close it.  I walked out of there thinking that everything was okay. 

Walking in today, I found out that my account was closed.  I was told that I authorized the closure weeks ago.  I was with a different customer service representative.  Instead of arguing it out, I decided to bite my tongue and pay the outstanding balance and open a new account. 

It was my fault.  I should have insured that the CS Representative understood my intent with the account weeks ago.  Now my VA Pension is floating around out there.  I hope they mail it to me.  I have to go to VA Benefits tomorrow to fix things.  After, I reopen my account. 

Tuesday, November 29, 2011

It's in His hands now.

I can't complain about life, especially this year.  As much as I want to, I will not.  I have to or rather want to remain positive.  I'm believing that there is more for me out there to do.  God is my provider. 

My ranch project has started.  I have a ranch that needs work.  I've been outside the last couple of days since Thanksgiving working on it.  Still have lots more to do.  It's a day to day process.  What I grow and raise will feed my family here.  For months now, I've let the ground go fallow.  Since taking the organic classes years ago.  I've incorporated a lot of techniques taught in those classes to improve my soil.  I have three huge trees to fell this week.  Starting tomorrow, I'll be clearing around those trees to get them ready. 

As for Safety Instruction, I'm not on schedule to teach for awhile.  Although, I am on standby.  When I'm needed, they'll call me.  So to keep busy while I'm waiting.  I'll be attending a banana tree workshop this Saturday.  It's been awhile since I've been to the university's agriculture workshops. 

This coming Sunday is Abundant Life Church's Ground Breaking for the New Vision Center.  I'll be working the camera during the Morning Celebration Service.  The afternoon will be busy helping to get the current church facilities ready for the evening fellowship and the new vision center area ready for the ground breaking. 

I am hoping and praying that I get to see my family again for the Christmas Holidays.  It's all in God's hands now.  He knows my desires.  The only available flight is Christmas Day now on Philippine Airlines. 

Thursday, November 24, 2011

HAPPY THANKSGIVING!

I am thankful to God for all his Blessings and Mercies the last year.  You're provisions are always right on time.  Thank You Lord Jesus.

I am thankful to my wife Rhoda, for always being there, supporting me, and encouraging me.  I love you so much.  I am thankful for my children Larraine and Raphael Frenz.  Larraine for helping out with the chores, taking the time to study hard, and taking care of her brother.  Frenfren for being the boy he is, Both for being joyful, loving, and prayer warriors at such young ages.  I love you both so much.

 
I am thankful for my inner circle.  You know who you are.  You're also familia.  Always there to help me and Rhoda out.  No questions, just helping us.  Encouraging us to stay the course.  Helping us financially when everyone else refused.  I thank you so much for being a part of our lives.  So many names that we call each other: Pari', Mali', Prim, Chelu, Friend.  No matter what name, you are family.  I am thankful for my siblings who have helped me out.  I am grateful for all you've done.  You also provided so my kids will eat or receive medical care.  Thank you so much. 

I am thankful for Ann Marie and OSH Solutions for giving me the chance to become a Safety Instructor, giving me the opportunity to touch so many lives in our industry to share the knowledge that I've gained through so many safety courses.  Thank you so much. 

May God continue to Bless each one of you, who have been and continue to be a joy to me and Rhoda and our kids.  We thank you and love you all so much. 



I am thankful for my enemies.  You know who you all are.  You have given me the opportunity to become stronger in my Faith and relationship with my Lord Jesus Christ.  I am sorry for the confrontations that we've had.  I am sorry for being angry at each one of you.  I am thankful that our issues didn't escalate to what we both my later regret.  I am thankful for the lesson that I've learned in dealing with each one of you.  You gave me the opportunity to know how to deal with people just like you.  With all that said, I forgive each one of you.  I hope and pray you forgive me as well. 



HAPPY THANKSGIVING FROM MATUA RANCH!!!

 



Wednesday, November 23, 2011

How Wasteful the Older Generation Was...

How Wasteful the Older Generation Was...

 

 

In the line at the store, the cashier told the older woman that she should bring her own grocery bag because plastic bags weren’t good for the environment. The woman apologized to him and explained, “We didn’t have the green thing back in my day.”

 

 

The clerk responded, "That's our problem today. The former generation did not care enough to save our environment."

 

 

He was right, that generation didn’t have the green thing in its day.

 

 

Back then, they returned their milk bottles, soda bottles, and beer bottles to the store. The store then sent them back to the plant to be washed and sterilized and refilled, so it could use the same bottles over and over. So they REALLY were recycled.

 

 

But they didn’t have the green thing back in that customer's day.

 

 

In her day, they walked up stairs, because they didn’t have an escalator in every store and office building. They walked to the grocery store and didn’t climb into a 300-horsepower machine every time they had to go two blocks.

 

 

But she was right. They didn’t have the green thing in her day.

 

 

Back then, they washed the baby’s diapers because they didn’t have the throw-away kind. They dried clothes on a line, not in an energy gobbling machine burning up 220 volts – wind and solar power really did dry the clothes. Kids got hand-me-down clothes from their brothers or sisters, not always brand-new clothing.

 

 

But that old lady is right, they didn’t have the green thing back in her day.

 

 

Back then, they had one TV, or radio, in the house – not a TV in every room. And the TV had a small screen the size of a handkerchief, not a screen the size of the state of Montana. In the kitchen, they blended and stirred by hand because they didn’t have electric machines to do everything for you.

 

 

When they packaged a fragile item to send in the mail, they used a wadded up old newspaper to cushion it, not styrofoam or plastic bubble wrap.

 

 

Back then, they didn’t fire up an engine and burn gasoline just to cut the lawn. They used a push mower that ran on human power. They exercised by working so they didn’t need to go to a health club to run on treadmills that operate on electricity.

 

 

But she’s right, they didn’t have the green thing back then.

 

 

They drank from a fountain when they were thirsty instead of using a cup or a plastic bottle every time they had a drink of water. They refilled their writing pens with ink instead of buying a new pen and they replaced the razor blades in a razor instead of throwing away the whole razor just because the blade got dull.

 

 

But they didn’t have the green thing back then.

 

 

Back then, people took the streetcar or a bus and kids rode their bikes to school or rode the school bus instead of turning their moms into a 24-hour taxi service. They had one electrical outlet in a room, not an entire bank of sockets to power a dozen appliances. And they didn’t need a computerized gadget to receive a signal beamed from satellites 2,000 miles out in space in order to find the nearest pizza joint.

 

 

But isn't it sad the current generation laments how wasteful the old folks were just because they didn't have the green thing back then?

 

 

 

Note:  I did not write this.  This was posted by Vinmelchloe Dungca Cepeda at 671 Recipes.  

Tuesday, November 22, 2011

Nasty Tofu Salad.

I just ate the most nastiest Tofu Salad for lunch.  It was bland, just mixed veggies with tofu.  Never going to eat that salad again. 

I understand that this company is trying to make money selling food.  If you're the cook, you really need to try the dishes before you plate them to sell.  Get a small group of people to try your dish before you try to market it. 

Here's some suggestions for you if you insist on making this dreadful salad.  Got the "dreadful" from Gordon Ramsey.  Watch TV cooking shows.  There are many out there. 

Kitchen Nightmares
Master Chef
Iron Chef
TV Network (many good shows here)

There are so many out there on different networks.  Crying out loud, you can GOOGLE it! 

You're not helping guys like me.  Who are working hard to lose weight by making this nasty tofu salad.  It maybe healthy but it taste nasty and mushy.  You're not helping us stay the course with this type of food.  I'd would rather have eaten a plain salad then that dreadful piece of !@#$.   You make unhealthy but tasteful food, more appealing to us.  Do us a favor and don't cook anymore!

My daughter can cook better than you. 

Monday, November 21, 2011

Obama Stopover...No Stress.

President Obama's recent stopover on Guam was a joke.  Many people were wondering if he will make an appearance.  I knew he wouldn't. 

Prior to President Bill Clinton's visit to Guam in the late 90's.  There was a huge contingent of security on island a week prior to the scheduled visit.  There was a lot of work done prior to the visit.  Collaborations with local agencies to make Clinton's visit a success.  My Matua scouts and I were able to shake President Clinton's hand, after his speech.  That was an awesome experience. 

Obama who prides himself as an islander...is not.  How in the world do you call Hawaii, Asia?  That statement probably ruffled a lot of feathers with the Hawaiian brothers.   His visit is liken to a visitor who comes to my house and talks to me from inside his vehicle refusing to get down.  Are you to good for me?  You don't want to eat my food? 

To my Chelu's...let's not stress over this president's stop over.  When the day comes, when our island residents votes for Independence.  They'll mind us more and pay Billions in rent for those bases.   


Working in the ranch this afternoon. Have an order for 15 coconuts, will deliver this evening.

Sunday, November 20, 2011

Spent the afternoon and evening at the ranch. Wind was blowing...totally relaxing. Helped bbq again. Boyz loved my BBQ. Used organic lemons and Lorenzo's secret recipe. Will be there Friday to do some shooting. Setting up a small shooting range for the boyz to zero their weapons and to do some target shooting.

Charlie Camera Challenge.

I was assigned do operate Charlie Camera this morning for the morning service celebration.  It has been over two years since I operated Charlie Camera, the old Bravo Cam.  I thought it would go okay. 

It didn't go so well, from the get go.  All my shots sucked.  I thought it would be like riding a bike...jumping back into that slot after being on Delta Camera for so long.  It was mistake after mistake:  too much headroom, tilt down, tilt up, can't keep up with the subject,  jerky movements, shots weren't framed, transition was not smooth. 

It was a major challenge.   It was really disappointing.  I would rather get treed by a boar, then to go through that experience again. 

I was never so happy to hear the words from the director, "Charlie, fade to black".  TV Camera talk for...shut down.

Going back to Delta Camera and staying there. 

Wednesday, November 16, 2011

Forklift Operator Crushed,. UPDATE

PDN: Forklift Operator Crushed.


When I got the news about the above incident.  I was trying to figure out what company was involved in that tragedy.  Later, the media reported that the accident happened on the Fukuda Yard.  A forklift operator was trying to carry an old bus.  It lost it's load and flipped, pinning the operator underneath the forklift. 

This accident was preventable.  I don't have all the details about what happened.  I'm sure it will all be known in the next couple of days. 

I am sure that OSHA Compliance Officers, out of Region 9, are on their way to the island, if they are not here already.

So sad...



UPDATE:   16NOV11

Word on the street is that the company involved is a small company, not Fukuda.  Fukuda initiated rescue operations using their forklift to lift the other company's forklift off of the operator.  Family members state the operator's name is Paul Blas, 48 yo, from Dededo. 

Pacific Daily News

Marianas Variety Guam Edition.




Monday, November 7, 2011

Resting at home. :)

How do you Fail an Open Book Test?

I don't understand how some people can even fail an open book test.  Yes, there are lots of reasons out there.  Comprehension "maybe" one of them.  With this group of students on this last course, I can make any number of guesses. 

Out of the 6 that failed, one person changed his answer on several questions.  He got it right the first time on all of them.  Never doubt yourself unless you know for a fact that answer is not correct.  Especially, on an open book test.  The answers are in the book.  You just have to literally READ.  When you do that.  You'll definitely find the answer. 

The other five, in my opinion, only one of them actually tried his best.  He passed today.  The next four, they have a serious attitude issue.  They didn't care to be here.  Out of that four, two passed.  Only two failed from the original six that didn't pass the first time, on this retest. 

One of the two was reeking of alcohol.  I'm flabbergasted at this individual.  One of the safety topics touched on drugs and alcohol in the workplace on the first day of this course.  This individual has the audacity to come into my training room smelling of alcohol.  This is the last time, that will ever happen.  I am recommending that our training company recommends to our client, that they release him. 

The other individual, may have comprehension issues.  I'm not sure quite yet on him.  I'm learning towards attitude on this guy as well.  We'll see when he returns this Saturday for another make-up.  Hopefully, these next couple of days and pressure from his company, our client, will "encourage" him to read his materials that came with the course. 

On a good note.  The four student/workers that passed the first day did well.  Out of that four, I have recommended the top two, they're from the same company, return for the OSHA 30 hour Construction Hazard Recognition Safety Course.  I am hoping that their company will take our recommendations regarding the two student/workers and sends them back for more Safety Training.
     

Last student/worker finished the test. Now studying for my Mod 2 test tonight for Project Management.

Friday, November 4, 2011

Gone Solo on the 40 hour.

On Monday, I went solo, teaching the USACE EM 385-1-1, 40 hour Construction Safety Course.   I truly enjoy it when there is interaction between the students and myself, and amongst the students themselves.  As the presentation started each day throughout the week, I was comfortable with the safety slides that are similar to the slides in the 16-hour course.  Basically the slides are not at all that different between the two safety courses. 

Since I've been doing the 16-hour for a long while now.  I'm very comfortable delivering the training.  There are some specific safety topics on the 40-hour course that I am aware of, have experience, and knowledge.  But have not had time in front of students, teaching the topics.  This week gave me that opportunity to teach those topics. 

I found myself this week, using more of my own experiences in construction to relate to the students on the different safety topics.  After sitting down and reflecting what I have done throughout the years in Construction or General Industry, I realized have lots of experiences and stories to use in my trainings, especially in high hazards. 

For this course and upcoming courses, I developed a new exam for the students.  It is more challenging than the previous tests.  The last 20 questions are actual pictures in the field.  The students must identify the hazard(s) and/or safety violations in the picture to get the question correct.  On the first 60 questions, they had to answer the questions from multiple choices and be able to cite the references from the EM 385-1-1 Safety Manual.  They have to get both correct for the question to be counted. 

This afternoon, all my students passed.  They all learned.  I don't know why I doubted myself, the last couple of months, on going solo on the 40-hour Construction Safety Course.  The course went pretty good throughout the week. 

It was a great week of Safety training. Great interaction! All my students passed. The new test is Challenging.

Sunday, October 30, 2011

Professional letter designations.

I've always wondered what it would be like to have letters behind my name.  Do you know what I'm talking about?  You know people like doctors.  Who have DDS, DVM, or MD.  I know there are a lot more than that.  Even nurses have them, LPN, RN, DN.  Rhoda has an RN designation from the Philippine Board.  I know several people who have them, mostly doctors at the clinic or professors at the university.  To me, it means that person took a lot of personal investment into their chosen career. 

When I chose to get into the Safety Field last year.  I always watched with curiosity different safety instructors write on the white board behind their names: CHST, STS, CM, CIH, CSP.  I was curious to know what those letters meant: CHST stood for Certified Health Safety Technician, STS stands for Safety Technical Supervisor; CM is for Construction Manager; CIH stood for Certified Industrial Hygienist; and CSP is for Certified Safety Professional.  There are many others from different organizations. 

These designations are not affordable.  They are very expensive investment and takes a lot of committed time to earn these designations from the professional organizations that award them.  Earlier this year, I started looking into getting my CHST from the Board of Certified Safety Professionals and World Safety Organization.  I've been tossing the idea back and forth in my head.  There are advantages and disadvantages earning these designation letters.  The pros do out weight the cons.  The bottom line is public assurance that the person holding those professional credentials is trained according to a certain standard. 

I am studying for the Certified Health Safety Technician Exam for the Board of Certified Safety Professionals and World Safety Organization. I will attain those credentials next year with a lot of studying, and by God's grace. 

However to my surprise.  I learned a couple of weeks ago that I was awarded the Construction Site Safety Supervisor (CSSS) and Construction Site Safety Technician (CSST) Certifications from the National Construction Center for Education and Research last February 22, 2011.  I was browsing my online NCCER transcript for a course that I had completed in February that was not added on there yet.  That's when I discovered the certifications along with the missing safety course were in my transcript.  What timing! 

I'm not sure if these are counted as  professional designation letters.  I have seen some Safety Instructors use them as such.  I am not going to do that until I get verification from NCCER, that they are letter designators. 

ESTA...

Empty Seats.

It's really frustrating to see so many empty seats.  It's not easy getting the shots for my cam.  When I have to avoid those seats, so they're not in the shots.  Especially, when my parameters are tight. 

I don't understand why we have to pull out extra seats for the back...When there are so many empty seats in the middle and/or front.  Something is wrong with this picture. 

One solution maybe to get rid of the front row of seats.  Since, not many people like to sit up there.  We can replace it with a small 30 inch wall divider, in front of each area of seats. 

Solution number two would be to get rid of the back row of seats...all the way across.  And every loose chair in the back wall area.  This would force people to move into the empty seats in the middle and front of the building. 


I digress...I'm but a voice in a large crowd. 

Missing my family.

Thursday, October 27, 2011

NEW Guam VA Clinic...not up to Par.

When the Veterans on Guahan were told that we are getting a brand new Veteran's Clinic.  We were all ecstatic.  Since that new clinic opened up last year.  It's been a pain.  I thought service would be better.  My primary doctor and nurse are great!  But, the front desk staff...for a lack of a PC word...they suck! 

My primary doctor and I had a heart to heart during my last annual exam a week ago.  There are only two (2) doctors at the clinic to take care of more than 2000+ Veterans.  There is no pharmacists.  The nurse has to also work as the pharmacists.  During my appointment, my primary doctor was the only doctor in the facility.  What happens if she had to call in sick while the other doctor is gone?  Do they close the clinic for that day, week? 

Today, I went in to get my BP checked.  I had an appointment last Friday afternoon.  But I couldn't make it due to work.  I figured I could just walk-in like I normally do, to get my BP checked.  The Front Desk Clerk called my name and told me that I have to make a new appointment for the BP clinic and that walk-ins are now closed.  Instead of arguing with her...I decided to leave. 

Congress spent millions of dollars on this new VA Clinic and the service has not gotten better, but worse.  Make an appointment to get my BP checked?!  I'm a former Combat LIfesaver.  It does not take 5 minutes to pull my chart and put the cuff on my arm to get a reading.  There was only 1 other person in the waiting room besides me.  For the amount of time that it took for that clerk to talk to me about missed and rescheduling appointments, and that walk-ins are now closed.  I would have gotten my BP checked. 

I liked the old VA clinic at the Naval Hospital.  Service was better, everything is right there at the hospital.  Now we have to drive to other clinics for specialized care.  I didn't have to make an appointment for a BP Check.  I just walked in.  I didn't have to drive to more than one place to get my lab work done and go to other appointments.  Sometimes that grass is not always greener on the other side of the fence. 

This new million dollar clinic is understaffed by medical professionals to treat over 2000 Veterans.


ESTA...

Monday, October 24, 2011

Coming off a relaxing weekend.

Hafa Adai Y'all,  It's been awhile since I posted my last blog.  I have been busy.  Pretty glad for the much needed break this past weekend.  A lot going on with the safety trainings.  I'm gonna solo my first 40-hour safety course next week.  I want to see if I can do it.  I know I can.  I've been doing the OSHA 30-hours for awhile now.  I'm also revamping many of my safety slide presentations for all the different safety trainings that I am teaching.  It should be good.  I do have a 16-hour Hazard Recognition Course on Thursday and Friday this week.  I have to schedule a OSHA 30-hour Construction Hazard Recognition Course.  Getting a lot of requests for it.  I keep telling my friends to call OSH Solutions to schedule.  Might as well, do it for them. 

I have a serious family issue that I am dealing with in the Philippines.  It deals with my Neni Girl, Larraine.  It's really sensitive, at the moment.  Larraine and Rhoda have not given me permission to disclose what has happened.  Larraine is okay, now.  I'm just glad and thankful to God, that nothing more serious happened.  We're at a crossroads at the moment on how to move forward.  I'm praying that we do the right thing to keep my neni girl, and family safe. 

I'm back in the classroom, not as an instructor, but as a student again.  I am studying, Program Management.  I want to learn the intricacies of how things gets planned, procured, and delivered in the Construction Industry.  I believe the concept is the same as planning and scheduling for the military.  I had an experience with a previous construction company where the job was awarded to us.  Yet, months later on day 1 of the job, there were no supplies and equipment to do the work.  The workers were blamed for that.  I didn't think it was our fault.  I truly believe the owner and program managers didn't do a good job in planning that  job. 

So I am using my scholarship funds from First Hawaiian Bank to take the Program Management Course.  It's interesting to know the differences between each type of delivery systems: Traditional Contract Delivery, Build/Design, Construction Management, Construction Management at Risk, and Engineering-Procurement-Control. Also the different Construction Phases and what is supposed to happen in each phase.  Interesting...

This course is from the National Center for Construction Education and Research.  Similar to my Safety Courses, upon completion...I will be certified in Program Management.  I can take this certification and go anywhere in the USA for work.  I'm not chained to any geographic location.  My credentials are recognized nationwide with companies that hire NCCER grads. 

ESTA...

Tuesday, October 11, 2011

My son, Frenz's explanation about the door.

Rhoda was telling me that the door was damaged.

Ronald, Rhoda's brother, saw Frenz near the door and asked him, "
what did you do with the door why it's ruined?". 

Then frenz said, "halaka, si daddy bug-at sakay tahan". 

Which means,
"
oh my gosh, daddy was so heavy when he was riding that door.now it's broken".   Translation from Rhoda.


Hmmm, my son is using my name to his advantage.  LOL...

Saturday, October 8, 2011

Our Dates...



Arriving home in CDO, after a long break...was great.  Rhoda and I have been through so much together during our long distance separation.  It was not easy.  Filipino Overseas Foreign Workers and Deployed US military service members had a better chance seeing their families, inside a year, than we did.  However with Jesus, as the Head of our Household, we endured.

We spent a lot of quality time together, the moment I walked through the front door.  Believe me, if there is a will, there will be a way.  So we did.  Lots of 'em.  When we went out of the house to run an errand, pay bills, look for a heat press machine, or other things.  We went on dates. 

Starbucks was amazing.  I'm still tripping over the price difference there in CDO and here on the island.  I still think we're being ripped off. Anyway, We both ordered a Mocha Caramel Frappe.  The Bente size...largest they had at 155 Pesos each.  In USD, that's approximately $3.70.  I still think I'm being ripped off here.  Okay so back to our date...Rhoda and I ordered a Fudge chocolate cake and cheese cake.  They were good.  We took some pics of our order for remembrance.  We had a great time.  That was actually Rhoda's first time to Starbucks. 

After that we just cruised the mall for awhile.  I did take some pictures of the safety violations I saw at the construction site next to the wall.  Yeah, I know...working while on vacation. 

Other dates were sidelines of actual trips to the store.  Larraine caught on to what Rhoda and I were doing.  One day, while I was in the shower getting ready.  Larraine called out to me and asked if she can go.  Of course, I said, yes.  We were only going to buy the major ingredients for the celebration that weekend.  So we went bought what we needed to get and stopped by Jollibee for a coke float.  Okay...so we did order some crispy spicy chicken while we were there.  Have to make the most of our outings. 

One Monday, after we saw the doctor.  Rhoda and I went to Chowking.  It's a nice fastfood Chinese Restaurant in CDO's Divisoria.  We ordered two of their Halo-halo.  Rhoda ate one, while I ate two.  After I had finished my first one, I went back to order a second one.   It was great to eat halo-halo again, especially with my wife. 

One special date was on the river bank behind the house in San Vicente at the family compound south of Butuan City.  All the kids were in school.  Frenz was with his younger siblings.  Larraine was with her Tita Rizza.  We went down to the picnic table that Marlon, Rhoda's brother-in-law, had built.  We just enjoyed each other's company.  What was also great.  We were singing Praise and Worship songs.  Rhoda was playing the guitar.  I was her backup singer.  It was great, just the two of us, for that couple of hours.

We'll definitely be doing more dates when I go home again for Christmas/New Year's Vacation. 




Picture above taken by Rizza. 

Thursday, October 6, 2011

Making of the Chokoy Boy.

My first day home at Cagayan De Oro was great.  I had brought with me many pasalubong from Guahan for Rhoda, the kids, and her family.  Most of it was American Chocolates.  I noticed when Rhoda was taking inventory of what was in the suit case and dutifully seperating it, Frenz didn't go after all the party bags of Hershey's Chocolates.  He was busy playing with the shampoos, soaps, and laundry detergents that I had brought.  I was kind of perplexed by his reaction to chocolates...ignoring them. 

It wasn't until after Rhoda took some chocolates out to eat. That Frenz asked what was his mommy eating.  He wanted some to try.  Rhoda gave him one bite size Hershey's chocolate bar to eat.  He carefully opened the small bar and tasted it.  He was surprised and said it was delicious.  He fully exaggerated his delight to the taste of Hershey's chocolates, commenting on each piece he ate. 

Since that first day, Frenz would always ask for Chokoy (chocolates).  He would say in Visayan, only one.  Once you gave him, he would be happy, jumping up and down, and content.  But as soon as he was finished with that piece, he would be back asking for, only one, again.  So the cycle begins.  Rhoda and I would then start hiding the chocolates.  So then everytime he asked, we would show him that there was none.  But, he continued asking.

One day, Frenz and Larraine were given a handful of choclates in red, yellow, brown wrappings.  I had assumed that they would share.  Rhoda asked Larraine how much she had eaten.  Larraine sadly said, only two.  So Rhoda asked Frenz how much he ate.  Frenz replied happily, only one. Even though his face, hands, and t-shirt had chocolate stains.  Larraine exclaimed, Only one, you ate 15!  Again Rhoda asked the boy, what happened to the other chocolates.  Frenz replied that the witch ate them. 

While in Butuan City, Frenz told the rest of the extended family that he has chokoy back in Cagayan De Oro.  Even though Rhoda and I hid the chocolates pretty good from Frenz.  He can sense that there are still chocolates hidden in the room. 

Back in Cagayan De Oro, Frenz would constantly ask, "Isang Chokoy, Isang ako".  meaning one chocolate, one for me. He is so funny.  Days before I left to return to Guahan.  Frenz started praying for more chokoy.  And he was serious about his prayers too.  Amazing how strong his Faith is believing that God will provide Blessings, so I'll be able to send Chokoy to him. 

I asked Rhoda to ask Frenz a question, giving him a choice.  A brand new bike or chocolates.  Frenz reply was to give him the brand new bike so he can go get chocolates.  My boy is only two years old and his reasoning is mature for his age. 

Now he has a new nickname; Chokoy Boy.   

Whoa...new look on my inbox page at Multiply. Nice.

Saturday, October 1, 2011

Larraine's Reaction knowing I'm home.

Larraine, Frenz, and me in Butuan City, just before the Celebration.

As I laid in bed relaxing from the trip.  I heard outside the door a loud commotion from the kitchen.  Then the door flying open, and my neni girl coming through the door, 

"Daddy's Here!", yelled Larraine as she came through the bedroom door and jumped on the bed hugging me.  She embraced me hard.  She was so happy.  She wanted to cry but couldn't.  We just laid there holding each other.  It's been a long 2 years and 8 months. 

Rhoda came in and told me what happened outside when Larraine came home from school.  All my luggages had been kept in the other room.  So she wouldn't see it.  As she walked into the house, she asked her Papang and uncle if I was home.  Both told her, they don't know.  Then she went straight to the refrigerator to get a glass of water.  As she opened the refrigerator, she saw that it's full of party bags of chocolates.  She knew right then, that I was home.  She ran straight for my bedroom, and shouted as she saw me laying on the bed after she opened the door.  Everyone was laughing. 

My neni girl and I hugged each other for an hour.  This was her time with me.  Her mommy was asking her how she felt.  Larraine told her mommy that she is tingly all over.  She wants to cry but she can't.  She is so happy that I'm home.  Her prayer was answered, Daddy came home for her birthday. 

Larraine had a hard time getting my attention.  He baby brother was competing with her for it.  But she was able to sneak out of the house with her mommy and me when we went for our dates to spend time with me. 

Enjoying my weekend. Hope y'all have a great weekend. God Bless y'all!

Enjoying my weekend. Hope y'all have a great weekend. God Bless ya'll!

Meeting my son for the first time.

Frenz and me in Butuan City, September 17, 2011.


I had just flown in from Manila on a connecting flight. It was just before noon.  The private car had passed the house because I didn't recognize the street.  I was looking for the vulcanizing shop that was in front and to the right of the house.  It was no longer there so we passed it.  Good thing I recognized the kitchenette on the corner and bakery across the street.  I asked the driver to turn around.  After stopping traffic for a few seconds, we finally parked in front of the gate leading to the house.  I got out as the driver took care of taking down my bags.  I tried to get into the house quietly through the gate.  But the screen door was locked.  My father-in-law saw me and yelled out, "Welcome home" and opened the door for me.  He went outside to help with the bags.  Behind him was my son, Frenz.  He looked at me and smiled, walked to the side of the door looking at his grandpa, and then turned to me. 

That's the first time Frenz and I met, face to face.  Yeah, he knew me from our video chats on webcam.  But this was the first time, he actually met me in person.  I wasn't sure what to expect.  I didn't want to rush him and pick him up.  I was happy to see my son and greeted him.

"Hi there Frenfren"! 
He smiled at me.

It didn't take him long to come right up to me as I sat on our wooden couch.  He allowed me to pick him up.  And I sat him on my right leg.  Frenz kept looking at my face, studying it. 

I asked him, "Asa si Larraine?".  (Where is Larraine?)

He looked out the window.  Then looked back at me and said, "Wala". 

Rhoda came out and saw him.  "Aiii, you're with daddy?!"

Frenz smiled and leaned closer to me. 

Rhoda had gone outside to pay the taxi driver earlier and came back into the house to see Frenz sitting on my lap. 

We had talked a couple of days earlier, agreeing for me not to rush the boy.  Let him get used to me.  Allow Frenz time to know me.  I guess that conversation flew out the window.  My boy was sitting on my lap, like he knew me for a long time.  I'm so glad that we video chatted when he was able to talk to me. 




Saturday, September 24, 2011

Baker Wanted Apply Here

Saw this picture above on my way to Jollibee with my family after Sunday morning celebration in Cagayan De Oro to celebrate Larraine's 9th birthday. 

Apparently, the below pic is where the hired applicant will be working. 




Be Very Careful with what job you apply for.  Especially when the workplace looks like that in the above picture.  You better RUN!!!  ROFLOL!!!!




Monday, September 19, 2011

Vacation Update: Winding Down towards the End of my trip.

There was supposed to be this big hoopla of a Transportation Strike here in CDO.  Doesn't seem much has happened.  I've looked out the gate of our house, even wandered outside, went shopping this evening for dinner, and there are still people driving around providing transportation services to the city.  I would call the strike a major FAIL.  I'm glad people here have there priorities straight.  The best protest is in the voting booth. 

Rhoda is cooking one of my favorite Filipino Dishes for dinner this evening.  She's making Pinakbet.  Earlier today she made Chocolate Shake which was really awesome. 

I'm trying to organize my thoughts to write my blogs.  That may have to wait until I get back home.  Quality Time is the priority here.  Two days left before I get on the plane on Wednesday afternoon. 

I've had a lot of Challenges before, and during this vacation trip.  Some were setbacks, one was a major kill joy for me and Rhoda.  But I never claimed it.  I'll post more on those challenges later.  I do thank the churches here and at home for praying for me.  Prayer really helps. 

I made a decision that I should have made a long time ago.  I've been skating around it, dodging it, and basically avoiding it.  I'll post about that later.  That's a blog in itself.  Some of you will know what I'm talking about. 

What Transportation Strike?! I see a lot of people providing a much needed service earning an income.

Tuesday, September 13, 2011

Vacation Update: Going around the city.

Vacation is doing great.  Everything is okay here in Cagayan De Oro.  I've been busy with my son, Frenz (Frenfren) all most everyday.  In the morning I walk Larraine to school.  It's not that far, maybe 1/2 mile from the house.  Then it's watching the boy the rest of the day. 

I'm learning his language.  I thought he was saying big gallon, for water.  He was actually saying, big lang...short for tubig nalang, which means, Just Water.  Frenz discovered the joy of Hershey's chocolates.  Which he didn't know before I brought a couple of party bags as pasalubong for the family here.  He ignored the bags when I first unpacked them last Tuesday.  The first time he tasted it.  He was saying, lami.  Which means delicious.  Now he constantly demands Chockoi...Chocolates.  

Larraine has grown up to a beautiful young lady.  She's smart, helpful with her brother.  I'm trying to spend as much time with her before I leave next week.  It's not easy with Frenfren vying for my attention.  But  she is wonderfully patient waiting her time for me. 

We did so much today going around the city.  Seeing my optalmologist today.  One of the best here in the Philippines.  He told me I didn't need surgery on my lazy eye.  I just have to go see a neurologist.  Doctors on Guam wanted me to have the surgery.  Good thing I came to the Philippines. 

Was able to go to Jollibee, Chow King, and Greenwich restaurants today and yesterday.  Three of my favorite restaurants here in CDO.  And now the new Starbucks at Lem Ket Kai Mall because of their cheap prices. 

Will try to post more about my trip...

ESTA...

Thursday, September 8, 2011

Having a Blast in CDO!

Frenfren and Vacation Update.

On my second day of my vacation.  Should have been third...but that's another long story.  Anyway, just wanted to thank everyone who prayed for my son, Rafael Frenz (Frenfren).  He is doing good.  He was released from the hospital on Monday. And, has been running around since. 

My first day back...Frenfren didn't hesitate to come to me.  It was our first meeting together since he came to the family last April 2010.  He is a rough kid doing things that the big kids do.  He has some unique characteristics...which will change in the future.  I'm not pushing anything this trip.  It's amazing how he has already bonded to me since I've been here. 

Larraine, was excited to see me, bursting through our bedroom door, jumping on the bed hugging me.  She's definitely a daddy's girl.  We spent sometime together but Frenz is also vying for my attention.  So it's not that easy for her.  I did walk her to school yesterday.  My first time at this school.  It's a nice quaint school.  We walked around a bit.  I'm sure she's proudly showing me off to her classmates that her daddy is home.  The great thing about her school this week.  Her teacher went to Manila yesterday.  So Larraine has no classes until next Monday.  So we're here at the house spending time. 

Rhoda is happy I'm home.  We've discovered ways to be together when the kids are not in the room.  Adjusting our time with the kids is okay.  We're also trying to spend as much quality time together as we can.  Frenfren doesn't make it easy, but we do manage. 

I discovered that StarBucks is ripping us off on Guahan.  Yes, they are.  Mocha Frap here is only 155 Pesos on the Venti Size.  Some big disparity here and the prices on Guahan.  The next time I order a Mocha Frap on Guahan, I'm gonna pay the Philippine price. 

So everything is doing great here.  Great to be with Rhoda and the kids. My son is a handful.  I'm tired from just taking care of him today.  I should play my straitjacket game with him tomorrow.  He is a great kid, rough, wild, hyper active, but very sensitive, lovable, sweet, organize for a kid his age.  He's already corrected me twice. 

I'll keep y'all updated when I get time on the internet.  Will post pictures later. 

ESTA...

Sunday, September 4, 2011

Packing for the trip.

You'd think with all the traveling that I've done.  That Packing would be a breeze.  Now, I'm waiting for clothes to dry in the dryer.  Have to keep my bags under 50 lbs. each.  I went from deciding to bring 4 bags ( 2 bags/2 boxes) to just 2 bags.  I'll have ship the 2 boxes via LBC when I get back.  The extra bag and boxes will cost me over $200.  I'm only allowed 1 check-in, 1 carry on, 1 laptop, 1 personal bag.  Bringing my laptop just in case those two clients decide to finally do some safety training over there.  If not, at least, I'll be able to work on my slide presentations when things slow down.   I doubt that.  I'm pretty sure Rhoda or Larraine will use my laptop. 

While I'm waiting for the clothes to dry...gonna check on the rabbitry and do some rearranging. 

Packing...

35 Hours



Another reason for my excitement is my countdown to seeing my family again in Cagayan De Oro City tomorrow.  Yes, it will be tomorrow, as it is now Sunday.  So in a little over 35 hours, I will be in the Lumba airport making my way down to Cagayan De Oro City. 


I would like to go on another white water adventure.  Take on the advance course someday.  Unfortunately, it will not be on this trip.  Hopefully, on another trip around Christmas or even next year. 

This trip is for my family.  It's been to long without Rhoda.  We have a lot of catching up to do.  Spending time with my Neni Girl, Larraine.  Walking with her to school to drop her off and waiting for her at the school gate to pick her up.  Meeting my son, Raphael Frenz, who Rhoda and I adopted, for the first time.  Since, Frenz joined our family last April 2010.  It'll be fun getting to know him and wrestling with him. 






Larraine has already claimed my time to take her to the park with her brother, after school each day.  Plus a pool trip for her birthday. 

Rhoda and I will have to be discreet with our quality time together.  We'll figure something out.  Maybe kicking the kids out of our room and having them sleep in their room for awhile.  I can hear them now, knocking on our door to let them back into our room.  It looks like Rhoda and I will have to have another honeymoon. 




Saturday, September 3, 2011

Knocking out the 40-hour.

I've been excited this whole week.  This is my first time participating in the USACE EM 385-1-1 NAVFAC 40-hour Safety Course as 1 of 5 instructors.  It was awesome.  Team teaching with my safety instructor was great.  What was even surreal was when he asked me to take over his topics because he has another class, CPR/First Aid/AED, to teach today. 

I really enjoy being an Independent Safety Instructor for OSH Solutions-Guam.  Working with the other OSH Safety Instructors is always a learning experience and fun too.  I get a long with everyone. 

I'm really proud of 3 GTTP Safety Students; Melanie, Chris, and Cliff in the class.  They jumped at the opportunity to take the 40-hour this session.  I was in their shoes only a few months ago.  We were even classmates together in some NCCER Safety courses and OSHA courses.  Now, I'm one of their instructors.  They listened to the advice I gave them.  The same advice Samoan Joe gave me months ago when I decided to make Safety my career. 

Although, I won't be able to finish the class with the current students taking the 40-hour this session.  I will be seeing them all again in other trainings. 

Wednesday, August 31, 2011

Blaming Uniform Wear is Aburd.

The following article is my reply to PDN's GuamGrandfather/MV's GrandpaGuam.  This individual goes around on the media forums blasting his manta regarding uniform wear in our public schools. 

Here is a copy of what he stated on the PDN a couple of days ago: 

GuamGrandfather

3:37 AM on August 30, 2011

The photos do not look like a school. Not even a third-rate, third-world school. They look like they were taken in a prison yard somewhere.



GuamGrandfather

10:02 AM on August 31, 2011

The vandalism and burglaries of our schools are done by students and former students. They are acts of hate as normal robberies do not involve vandalism. To end this strange war against our schools we need to treat students like human beings. We need to end the penal and punitive atmosphere created by harsh school policies and treat students like individuals. Number one on this list would be to end the hateful mandatory school uniform policy. It makes no sense to force hundreds of students in overcrowded schools to dress the same. The lesson learned is "you must be punished if you are different" and this serves as a role model for bullies on campus. It also creates resentment among those who wish to be recognized as unique individuals of worth. Guam is paying the price for turning our schools into harsh conformity factories characteristic of third-world, non-democratic societies around the world. Treat the children like criminals in a prison and many of them will act just like criminals in a prison. How hard is this to understand?



My reply: 

It's great to see JFK students enjoying their new campus. They waited a long time to get back there. It is unfortunate that certain posters want to take this community event and turn it into their personal attack on the school's uniform policy and attacking the 2400 students there, calling them prisoners.

GuamGrandfather/GrandpaGuam is assuming that students who wear uniforms to school become deviants. He also states that students are punished for not wearing uniforms. In other posts, in other forums, he states that uniforms cause students to become bullies. Here, he calls them prisoners and vandals. He also stated that he supports students wearing uniforms if the parents chose for them to wear uniforms. Yet, he continues to contradict himself in every post he submits to various forums. So what is the issue? If the parents made the choice, or the students themselves made the choice. Why denigrate them for making that choice?

He blames the institution as the cause for students to become deviants. It is as if a piece of cloth will automatically change a person. He seems to forget that prior to uniforms being implemented , schools already had bullies and vandals. There were bullies and vandals back then. There are bullies and vandals now. What has changed except for the uniform policy and overpopulation of our schools?

GuamGrandfather/GrandpaGuam can continue with his opinion. However, I do have a new theory to why we more bullies and vandals in our school system. I believe this theory is more logical than the uniform wearing theory.

I believe it's HOMEWORK that causes students to become deviants. They are overloaded with so much homework. The mental stress is to much for many of them. And when a student doesn't do their homework. They are punished with a count against their grades. So lets stop all Homework to all our students. What say you?

To place blame on an inanimate item, such as a uniform, or the institution itself is absurd.

End of Post.


of course I am being sarcastic with my "new theory".  This individual is a former DOE teacher at F.B. Leon Guerrero Middle School.  He's been ranting against uniform wear since the school first implemented it over 10 years ago.  I used to just ignore his posts. But this year, I've been debating him on the issue on both the Marianas Variety and Pacific Daily News forums.  To argue your point of view is one thing.  But to attack the students and parents who choose to support the uniform wear is another thing.